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Monthly Archives: June 2012

Communicate and be Honest!

22 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Beth in Human Resources

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I am pursuing a second Masters and I was sitting in class last night on personnel law.  The professor, who is also an attorney specializing in personnel issues, was telling us that most employers do not tell the truth on the performance appraisals … what?  Really?  Then how the heck do you hope to work together to address things for both parties to move towards success?  He said it all comes down to not wanting to deal with hurt feelings, possible anger issues and so on.  It takes guts and courage to speak the truth (the good, the bad and the ugly) – speak it in love and speak respectfully and speak it often!

Human Resources


Tips and Tricks-Supervising Others by Sheri Mazurek

Posted: 20 May 2012 04:34 PM PDT

This is the first in a new series called tips and tricks. Supervising others is one of the most difficult jobs one can have; it is also one of the most important. Below is a list of tips for supervising others that I picked up along my career path. What can you add?

☺ Give Positive recognition immediately

☺ Meet individually with your employees to discuss their career goals and identify the skills they need to achieve these goals

☺ Evaluate yourself; ask “What do people have to do to get positive feedback from me?”

☺ Give immediate feedback on poor performance.  Silence is acceptance.

☺ Maintain a development file on every employee.  Track progress through out the year

☺ Focus feedback on behavior.  Be more descriptive and less evaluative in your feedback.

☺ Recognize development efforts, not just results.

☺ Help your employees build their skills by having each employee work on improving one development need at a time.  Be specific about the steps he or she can take to meet his or her goals.

☺ Identify your replacement and develop them to do your job.  If you don’t have a replacement, hire one.

☺ Rotate people through key positions to develop their skill set

Sheri Mazurek is a training and human resource professional with over 16 years of management experience, and is skilled in all areas of employee management and human resource functions, with a specialty in learning and development. She is available to help you with your Human Resources and Training needs on a contract basis. For more information send an email to smazurek0615@gmail.com or visit www.sherimazurek.com. Follow me on twitter @Sherimaz

“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself, any direction you choose.” Dr Seuss

22 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Beth in Human Resources

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I have long been a believer of life is full of choices.  Nothing is more tiring than when people will not accept responsibility or accountability.  Everything comes down to a choice.  The Chick-Fil-A Leadercast for 2012, their theme was Choices.  Dr. Sheen Lyengar has done research on the brain and choices.  Even Dr. Seuss knew …

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Personal Accountability has No Victims by Sheri Mazurek Posted: 01 Jun 2012 04:33 AM PDT

“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself, any direction you choose.” Dr Seuss Dr. Seuss has been providing great advice to children for years. And while the above mentioned passage is great advice, it assumes that one realizes their own control in situations. It requires personal accountability. Personal accountability seems to be missing far too often in organizations today. Consider the number of conversations you have had with those in your organization about missed deadlines, failed projects, or performance misses. How often do those conversations result in a list of excuses? If my boss just understood how it really is…. The economy has really hurt…. Well if the customers would just…. I’m doing the job of four people with no extra pay…. The list continues and I am sure we could fill pages with all of the reasons why people can’t meet their objectives. When the focus is here, the behavior will continue. The deadlines will continue to get missed, and the projects will continue to fail. And the fingers will continue to point. The good news is that when the focus shifts to what is possible and what can be done, change can occur. The challenge is making the choice and helping those in your organization assume the personal accountability to make the choice to move out of the victim cycle of excuses and focus on action. Teach them what personal accountability is and how to put it into to action. You can start today with the next excuse. Sheri Mazurek is a training and human resource professional with over 16 years of management experience, and is skilled in all areas of employee management and human resource functions, with a specialty in learning and development. She is available to help you with your Human Resources and Training needs on a contract basis. For more information send an email to smazurek0615@gmail.com or visit http://www.sherimazurek.com. Follow me on twitter @Sherimaz

Money or Relationships?

22 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Beth in The Best of Leadership: The best tidbits from other blogs

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Research has proven the workforce is shifting, no surprise to many of us.  However, many still assume money is the primary motivator for people.  That may have been true for the Baby Boomers but with this new generation, new thinking must also be developed.  Millennials want to know why, they want to see the big picture, they want to know the impact they are having and they want to know now!

Here are some additional thoughts from Kevin Eikenberry –

What Your Employees Really Want (It Might Not Be What You Think)

by Kevin Eikenberry on June 20, 2012

in Communication, Empowerment, Influence, Leadership, Learning

Forget more money and better benefits.

We think that is what people need, to which most managers and leaders say – “I can’t give them more” or “That’s out of my hands.”   The good news is those aren’t the things that will move the needle.

A recent (February and March of 2012) Career Builder survey of 5,772 full-time workers in many industries, found that 28 percent said the success benchmark would be earning $50,000 to $70,000. And 23 percent put that mark at less than $50,000.

For a tenth, success equals $150,000 or more.

And even if you think your people are different, consider this…  After you get a raise, even if it is what you really want (like a new car), pretty soon that new wage (or car) is no longer a motivator – it is the new normal.

If you want to raise commitment, productivity and increase people’s “work ethic” (that is worth a post on it’s own), think about these factors instead.

A Reason Why.   People want to do work that matters.  Help people see the big picture in their work.  Connect their work (or help them connect it) to the larger, aspirational mission of your team or organization.  This bigger picture will make a big difference.

Clear expectations.  We all want to know what is expected – what a target for success is.   If expectations change, let people know – and engage them in that conversation.  How can people meet your expectations if they don’t know what they are?  Do they know?

Relationship.  People don’t want to work for a paycheck, they want to work for and with people.   That goes for you as their boss and their co-workers.  How often do you share a kind word, give specific encouragement, or check in to see what they need? These mean more than you will ever know – unless you realize how much they matter from your boss.

Targets.   Human beings are goal oriented beings.  Give people something to shoot for.  When these targets are connected to the big “why,” magic occurs.

Freedom.  Even in the most process-oriented and procedurally-focused jobs, there is room for personal approaches.  Give people some latitude within the framework.  You will get higher levels of commitment, and likely process improvements too!

Input.  Ask questions. Shut up. And listen. People have valuable perspectives.  They want to share it.  So ask for their input and value it.

Future.   Help people see themselves in a future they desire – and help them get there.  That future may or may not be the one you see them in, so you must ask.  Then do what you can to support and encourage them to reach that future.

The best news about all of these?   You have lots of influence over these, whether you are in the C-suite or a first line supervisor.   How can you put more of these things into your employees daily experiences?  Ask yourself that question everyday – and take action on your answers.  You will be amazed at the changes in attitude, performance, and outcomes.

Summer is not a time of rest …

22 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Beth in Fundraising

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Fundraising for Nonprofits


Improving/Expanding Your Fundraising Program by Hank Lewis

Posted: 19 Jun 2012 01:01 AM PDT

The Summer Is A Great Time To Make New Things Start To Happen !!

It would be a good time for a Development Program Analysis/Assessment/Audit to take a look at your current fundraising activities/programs to determine:
• What you’re not doing that you could do; and,
• What you’re doing that you could do more (cost) effectively !!

That should include an evaluation of your fundraising leadership and your leadership potential. It should incorporate an assessment of your fundraising knowledge/skills. It should determine how effectively you’re getting your message out to your (potential) donors, and how your donors/leaders/volunteers feel about how they are recognized for their support/efforts.

It would be a good time to begin Creating/Enhancing your Major Gifts Program — you could:
• Identify potential leadership;
• Identify potential major donors; and,
• Figure out how to get them to tell you what you need to do to get them to do what you
want them to do !!

Major focus of this process is to learn what it is that would make folks want to become major donors to your organization.

It would be a good time to begin working on that Bequest Program you’ve been thinking about, so you can:
• Ensure long-term (5-, 6- & 7-figure) cash flow;
• Build a volunteer leadership that will want to help you create the program; and,
• Design a “Recognition Program” that will encourage potential “Legacy Society” members
to want to join you.

In addition to the elements noted for the first two activities, you must determine what it would take to get people to want to name you in their wills.

And, to emphasize “the” critical factor for all of the above, the fact-finding and planning must focus on how, by supporting you, the (potential) donors will be satisfying their own needs.
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Have a comment or a question about starting, evaluating or expanding your fundraising program? With over 30 years of counseling in major gifts, capital campaigns, bequest programs and the planning studies to precede these three, I’ll be pleased to answer your questions. Contact me at AskHank@Major-Capital-Giving.com

Does Experience Ultimately Provide Ease?

22 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Beth in The Best of Leadership: The best tidbits from other blogs

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Dan Wolgemuth, Friday Fragments, YFC

June 22, 2012

Easier?

In 1986 Greg LeMond became the first non-European cyclist to win the prestigious Tour de France cycling race. His accomplishment not only impacted cycling professionals, it also inspired many amateur cyclists.

During LeMond’s career he was asked if cycling got easier as he improved both his equipment and conditioning? The response rings through my mind often: “It never gets easier, you just go faster.”

The application of the insight that LeMond provides reaches well beyond the sliver of leather called a cycling seat. It reaches deeply into the journey of life. It exposes truth for children and parents alike. It brings clarity to world class athletes and it underscores the journey of followers of Christ.

Does life get easier? Do the collection of experiences I accumulate lighten the load?

“I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”  ~  John 16:33 (ESV)

No, not easier but faster.

The more we know, the more we learn, the more we grow, the more we stretch – the better the view of the uncharted territory in front of us.

This is not a cruel reward but a powerful stewardship. Our obedience is celebrated by increased responsibility, our faithfulness invites more intense challenges.

Not easier… but faster.

Faithfulness doesn’t inoculate us – it exposes us.

Obedience doesn’t insulate us – it equips us.

As light we attack darkness.

As salt we confront decay.

As children of God we embrace orphans.

We wipe tears even as we shed our own.

Faster, faster, faster.

Never easier, but never alone.

From the manger to the cross.

Integrity invited poisonous whispers.

Innocence produced libelous assertions. Scandal. Lies.

Jesus paved the way… not to easier, but to faster; and it is there that I find less of me and more of Him.

“In this life…”

Like Jesus. Because of Jesus. With Jesus.

Servant Leadership – What exactly is it?

22 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Beth in Leadership, Uncategorized

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Please clicl below for a great summary of what Servant Leadership is by Trinity Western University.

Servant Leadership: A great synopsis

http://twu.ca/about/values/servant-leadership-life.html

Feedback is truly a gift …

22 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Beth in The Best of Leadership: The best tidbits from other blogs

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The Essential Component of High Performance

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When someone asks how they did. I realize I haven’t done well at giving feedback. I’ve been passive not active.

I’ve never heard high-performers say, “I get too much feedback.” They crave more. On the other hand, I’ve never met a leader who gave enough.

High feedback leaders develop high performance cultures, when feedback’s done well.

Effective feedback energizes; nitpicking de-motivates.

Nitpicking is:

  1. One way. You give but don’t invite feedback. It’s frustrating. Still worse, it’s belittling.
  2. Always negative.
  3. Low benefit.
  4. Demoralizing. Watch people when they walk away. Do their heads always hang and their shoulders droop?

People who crave feedback include:

  1. New hires.
  2. Freshly promoted employees.
  3. Those facing new challenges.
  4. Perfectionists.
  5. Self-critical downers.
  6. Highly motivated achievers.

  People who resist hearing feedback may be:

  1. Insecure and fearful.
  2. Drifting.
  3. Stubborn.
  4. Not committed to the pursuit of excellence.
  5. In over their heads.

First step:

The first step to great feedback isn’t
performance it’s expectations.

Explore, explain, establish, and agree upon performance expectations before increasing feedback.

Fuzzy expectations make negative feedback feel like an ambush. “Why are you giving me negative feedback about “xyz” when you never told me you expected “xyz.”  %*#!!

How to begin:

Begin giving more feedback by explaining
your intent and asking permission.

“I want to enhance our performance and build confidence. I’d like to begin sharing feedback more frequently. How do you like receiving input on your performance? How do you feel about giving me feedback on my performance? What are your concerns?”

Positive:

Positive feedback is best served alone.

Don’t use it to buffer “bad” news. See the good – say the good – walk away. An abundance of positive feedback creates environments where corrective feedback goes down more smoothly.

What feedback tips or warnings can you share?

What does great feedback look like?

 

http://leadershipfreak.wordpress.com/2012/06/13/the-essential-component-of-high-performance/

Loyalty – a lost value?

22 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Beth in The Best of Leadership: The best tidbits from other blogs

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Leadership’s Most Neglected Virtue

Few things are more devastating than being used and abused by those you support. Disloyalty burns like no other burn. Disloyalty demoralizes.

Strength:

The strength of an organization is expressed by the loyalty of its people. Military organizations thrive because members disadvantage themselves for the advantage of others, for example.

Giving:

Calling for loyalty demands reciprocity. Sacrifice of life calls for loyalty to the fallen. “No man left behind,” is the flip side of, “Give your life for the cause.”

If you want loyalty, give it.

Have you ever heard the bull crap line, “I need you too much to promote you?”

Never be loyal to those who are disloyal.

Expression:

Loyalty is seen when:

  1. Gossip is rejected. All gossip is disloyalty.
  2. Serving others rises above serving self.
  3. Disagreement is encouraged and honored. People who won’t engage in constructive disagreement believe they’ll be thrown under the bus when it’s convenient.
  4. People own decisions even if they disagreed.
  5. Everyone is held to consistent standards. Those higher in organizations never enjoy benefit at the expense of others.
  6. Leaders take blame and share credit.

Sacrifice:

Disadvantaging self for others isn’t sacrifice when values align, it’s an honor. Standing for something enables you to stand-with.

Mistakes:

Loyalty is best seen in the context of mistakes and short-comings. Few things stir the soul more than standing with someone who fell short. Loyalty for loyalties sake is foolish, however.

Stand with those who acknowledge mistakes and make corrections. Reject those who hide mistakes and persist.

Standing “with” demonstrates and invites loyalty.

Few things bring out the best in others more than loyalty. Who are you standing with? Who stands with you?

How and when do you express loyalty?

Have you seen loyalty at work?

 

http://leadershipfreak.wordpress.com/2012/06/19/leaderships-most-neglected-virtue/

To Invest in Others …

22 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Beth in Leadership

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The Rule of the Needle

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Failing is easy – chase urgencies and neglect priorities.

Success is found by passionately
doing what matters most.

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The thing that matters most for leaders
is building other leaders.

If you don’t develop others, you’ll never reach extraordinary.

Who:

  1. Avoid Model T’s. Before driving a Model T you crank it to get it started. If you have to convince, cajole, or constantly crank someone to get them going, that’s all you’ll ever do. You’ll crank them – they’ll sputter – you’ll crank them again the next time. Failing is easy; just spend your time cranking.
  2. Passion first. Find the most passionate people available and throw gas on their fire.
  3. Potential second. Potential seduces leaders who are dedicated to developing leaders. You see someone with talent, skills, and/or education and you start drooling like a dog at a dish. Potential apart from passion is constant frustration and ultimate disappointment.
  4. Respect matters. The more they respect you the more impact you’ll have.
  5. Practice trumps theory. Talking is useful but action matters most. Go with people prone to act.
  6. The sandbox principle. How well do they play with others?

The rule of the needle:

When it comes to people, there’s never perfect clarity regarding who to coach, mentor, and/or teach.

Ask yourself, “Are they passionate?” If the needle tips to yes, ask, “Do they have potential in this area?” If the answer is yes, ask, “Are they prone to action?” etc.

The needle determines what or who matters most. It doesn’t point to perfection or create certainty. Waiting for certainty and perfection wastes time and stalls progress. The needle indicates likelihood of success.

How do you determine what matters most?

How do you identify people you plan to develop?

 

http://leadershipfreak.wordpress.com/2012/06/20/the-rule-of-the-needle/

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